Monday, March 15, 2010

What I have learned...

It was a week ago that Dr. Squiers first heard Tyler's heart murmur. I don't have to say this but it has been quite a week. It has been quite overwhelming and emotional. But I will say I have learned a few things along the way.

First, I have learned how many people love Tyler and our family. I have gotten so many encouraging emails, calls, and cards. All the kind words have really been comforting and helpful this week. I feel so blessed to be surrounded by family and friends that love us and who are so caring. So, I thank you for that. I can't imagine having to deal with this without wonderful family and friends.

I have also learned the power of prayer. I know God has given me strength over the last week. There are so many people praying for Tyler and he is on so many prayer list. I know God will continue to answer our prayers.

Lastly, I have learned that we are not alone in this journey. I have gotten so many emails and heard so many stories from other mommies who have experienced something similar with their baby. There is a woman who is a friend of a lady that I work with. When her daughter was 20 months old she had to have heart surgery. She emailed me the story of her daughter and something she said really made me think...

"It's a tough journey, but one I'm glad we had the option to take...."

This really made me think. Although, this is an awful problem, I'm thankful there is a solution. I know things could be a lot worse so I am thankful that surgery is an option and his heart can be fixed.

If I failed to mention, I have also learned how to find the positive in everything. I never knew I could be such an optimist!

Thanks again for the love and prayers....keep them coming.

1 comment:

  1. Hey Guys.
    Mrs. Arellano asked me to pray for you guys and sent me to your blog. What she didn't know is that our children have the same problem. Avery Grace was 4 days old when she had her coarc repaired and reconstructed. God gave us so much peace during this time. All I could rely on was that God was in control in the good and the bad. Avery did great during and after her surgery. God has healed our little one that is know 5 years old. Every time I look at her I am reminded of God' grace and mercy. She is full of life and has no limitations. She plays soccer and is the most aggressive one out on the field!! Going through this with her has made me more aware of how powerful and might God really is! Looking back I am thankful to God for allowing us to go through this trial. Avery has much more of and amazing story then this but it is to long to put on here. Just wanted to let you know we are praying for you and we do know what you are going through. If you need to talk to someone feel free to email me at bkmcnatt@yahoo.com. or call 940-484-9424.
    Kelley McNatt

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